The #1 reason you need to be filled with wisdom of God is so you can become your BEST self.

“Wisdom is the spirit of God that enables us to differentiate not only between good and evil, but good and best; and empowers us to implement the will of God in any and every situation.” -Leadershipology.com

You have an ideal self and a real self.  Your ideal self comes from your passion, which comes from your competencies and gifts. Then vision is born out of passion and your values. Your self-image comes from your ideal self.

The real self is made up of your personality, good and bad. It’s without passion, negative, tired, wanting to quit when things are tough. The real messes up the ideal.  When hurt happens, we become cautious instead of extravagant. We allow life to stop us from living in our ideal self.

The ideal sets your self-image, which sets self-esteem, which is how we feel about ourselves. But many have had the ideal knocked away by their real self.

You live in the real, but you should work on the ideal. In tough times, don’t allow yourself to go to the real self. Instead, seek wisdom and work to bring that real up to your ideal.

When we learn what our ideal self is and see ourselves that way, we create a positive predictability that people trust. Living in the real creates a negative predictability and it separates relationships.  Families know the “real” you and that can create a negative predictability. Work to stay on the positive side.

The real self is not your destiny. Your ideal self is your destiny.

Be filled with wisdom of God. Be extravagant in forgiving, loving, giving, expressing yourself.  When you’re going through a tough time, ramp it up.  There are real reasons to be negative, but you can choose to be positive based on your ideal side of life.

Experience every good thing God has for you.