Spiritual maturity can be measured by:
• Whether a person seeks first the kingdom of God with their time, talent a treasure.
• How long it takes them to get over hurt (how long it takes to get back up when they have fallen down).
• How willing they are to obey what God says.
• How willing they are to submit to spiritual authority (how well they follow).
• How long it takes them to process difficult things.
• How easily they are offended.